Best Help

You just never know how life can change, and dramatically, from one week to the next. Hurricane Helene was expected to be a devastating storm when it rolled into the Big Bend of Florida on September 26th. Just how devastating could not be comprehended. The same is true for what would become a tropical storm with raging winds and 30 inches of rain dumped in the Western NC mountains. No words can adequately describe what has happened or what it will take to recover.

Many folks are moving to rescue and take care of those who are stranded and lost. They have the skills and resources to be of great service at this time. Food, shelter, equipment, utilities, and medical attention. Some are getting set for the long haul. They know it will not be a sprint. They have experience dealing with disaster.

So, here we are in Wilmington wondering how to help. We feel the urge to do something NOW! Of course we do. We are all moved by such tragedy. It is a time we feel most connected to each other. We want to help.

It is wise to remember that the best help is offered not by what WE think would be most useful, but by providing what is actually needed by those in need. Turns out our best help is usually money. And money is usually the thing we hesitate to give. I don’t know why we think buying something is better. Is it because it makes US feel better? Is that why we give…so we can feel good about ourselves?

The people caring for people need money so they can care for them in the best way possible. Find those who are on the ground doing the work and send them some money. Empower those who are doing the work to do it the best they can.

And then in the time you set aside for prayer and/or meditation, send the strength you want them all to feel from your heart. Send them the feeling they are not alone. Send them appreciation and love. And send some more money if you can.

With great humility.
Paula